There’s been plenty of discussion on our Reasons to Use Direct Mail post. One of the comments hinted at some research about visitors and I followed up with the commenter, Alex, to get the stats. He sent me the link to an Assimilation Study done by Mission Portland. (I hate the word assimilation. It just reminds me of the Borg. I prefer integration.) The study looked at 15 Portland area churches in 2000 that combined account for nearly 10% of the worship service attendance in Portland. It’s a fascinating read, but here’s a few of the juicy bits:
- Over 70% of visitors come to church because of a personal invitation. We’ve heard similar stats before, but it’s always good to hear it again.
- Only 12% of first-time visitors will return the following week and eventually become members. This stat is from Herb Miller’s 1997 book, How to Build a Magnetic Church. The study suggests that some congregations can get to 20 or 25% retention.
- Being intentional. It’s obvious, but if you want to integrate new people into the life of your church you have to be intentional. You have to be intentionally bringing in new visitors, you have to make them feel welcome, and you have to follow-up. It takes a lot of effort, and if you do a halfway approach, it just won’t work.
- Relational. People usually stuck with a church because they formed relationships. By far one of the best ministries for fostering relationships were small groups.
More:
- Learn more about how to welcome church visitors with this massive collection of resources and blog posts.
- Walking into a church for the first time can be scary. Check out Unwelcome: 50 Ways Churches Drive Away First-Time Visitors by Jonathan Malm for practical ideas and perspective on first-time guests.
Betsy
August 12, 2005
I think there’s a balance to be found. The last church I attended focused SO MUCH on first-time guests that those of us who were already there were short-changed. It’s like the cell phone companies: they’ll bend over backwards to get you to be a customer, but once you’re hooked, where’s the customer service?
I do think great small groups function both as a way to grow attendees AND help newbies develop relationships.
Love the Borg reference, btw. I didn’t know you were fellow Trekkies.
kevin
August 12, 2005
That’s interesting that some churches would go overboard on focusing on visitors. I don’t think many churches are having that problem.
And I’m actually not a Trekkie. That’s just how widespread the Borg concept is and how “assimilate” is such a lame word to use in the church context.
Michael
August 12, 2005
First off, assimilation:bad integration:good … now that we have that cleared up… :)
It’s about resources. We have to be on purpose and stay on task. Giving 100% to visitors is the only way to go. Giving 100% to regulars is the only way to go.
We can’t have too few people doing too many things. It dilutes the effort. We must stay with and pursue what we were designed for. Fill a need because you were designed to fill the need, not because you were asked to fill the need.
So go out there, find your 100% and tackle it!
Justin Broome
August 12, 2005
A GREAT book on the subject is Thom Rainers “Surprising Insights from the Unchurched and Proven Ways to Reach Them.” Thom Rainer studied people who formerly did not go to church, but now they do, and asked them why. What’s important? What makes a good impression? Why did you pick the church? Did someone invite you? What keeps you there? Plus MANY more questions. The book is so good that I give it out free to churches placing a certain minimum order with my company. You can find some snippets of information from the book on my website on the left side scrolling menu at http://www.jjgraphics.com
The facts from the Portland story line up almost verbatim. I can’t recommend Thom’s book enough. Even for churches without growth problems, it never hurts to continually evaluate and ask “are we doing the best we can?”
I love church growth. :)
Linda
August 12, 2005
I have found that people do well to attend your cell group before they come to your church. That way they meet “the church” before they go to “the church.” As you said, “small groups are best for fostering relationships” What’s the best way to create them? Check out the article by Ralph Moore on the best way to train cell leaders: http://www.cpforum.net/cgi-bin/processrequest.cgi?action=displayarticle&articleid=330
:: cawleyblog ::
August 12, 2005
Church Planting
A great reminder from the folks at CMS that integrating people into your church actually requires work: • Over 70% of visitors come to church because of a personal invitation. We’ve heard similar stats before, but it’s always good
Alex
August 12, 2005
To piggy back on Linda’s comments, the general stream of involvement in chis BE(come to an outreach event, participate with an interest group i.e. a motorcycling small group, etc.), BELONG(join a small group that develops spiritual growtn and connection, volunteer on a regular capacity, etc.), BELIEVE(make a commitment to follow Jesus), and BECOME(develop spiritual habits of prayer, worship and study, develop leadership , start mentoring others in the faith, evanglize). In our church, I am certain the stats would bear out that most people belong before they believe. What we are aiming for is deep, long term life change, spiritual growth and connection into the community, not the 7 Habits of High Effective Born Again Christians.
All that said, we must make more disciples and better ones at the same time, recognizing the above continuum.
Ron
August 12, 2005
I’m interested in Christianity and being part of a church. However, the ones that I’ve visited seem very cliquey and unfriendly. I live in Dallas Texas. Any recommendations?
Anne Jackson
August 12, 2005
Ron – may be a bit of a drive for you, but try Irving Bible Church in Irving on Kinwest a little off Macarthur(I think that’s how you spell it) – or The Village Church in Dallas. I have friends that are involved heavily at both of these churches. If you decide to go, let me know, and I would be happy to have them meet you and show you around. (I’m from Dallas but now live in Kansas City). What kind of church do you like? Big, small, contemporary, traditional? Feel free to send me an email at ajackson@westsidefamilychurch.com if you’d like to talk more about some churches in DFW.
Knowledge Lab
September 22, 2005
Integrating Church Visitors
A few tips and facts about assimilating visitors into the life of your church:
North Raleigh Community Church
November 4, 2010
In our community we have found a large % of our first time visitors saw & read our web site and came from that..
Justin
April 21, 2011
Our church uses Connection Power to integrate people into the church. Basically when someone first comes, they are assigned Connection Partners who follow up once a week for the first 6 weeks to build a relationship. After that, those who are considered retained are assigned a Care Partner that cares for the person for the first year. The plan is to care for someone until they are in a small group, where the group cares for each other. Letters are sent from the church on the 1st, 2nd, and third visit. Check out connectionpower.com It isn’t perfect, but it has helped us.
Mike
May 16, 2012
I agree with the points about follow up on new visitors, although I’d really like to see some more information about what makes a good follow-up plan.
I disagree about the word ‘integration’. ‘Assimilation’ isn’t good either, but ‘integration’ just makes me think of sixties race-riots…
Aishalomey
May 16, 2014
So we are sha king so much about integrating visitors. I don’t hear anything about integrating existing church members. Who like the word, music, ambience, have been in the same church for 2 years possibly more but are still just members. Not in any of the smaller groups within the church. Someone pls help.